i want to know….so tell me what u think and how does someone know its past repair and better to walk away versus trying to make it work…
Tags: Know, Past, Relationship, Repair
i want to know….so tell me what u think and how does someone know its past repair and better to walk away versus trying to make it work…
Tags: Know, Past, Relationship, Repair
it’s something you know in your heart
First of all, there’s no such thing as a “guarantied relationship”.
For the very same reason, every one has to go through it, until the first hand knowledge may become a satisfactory answer, for you only, to your original question. No one can predict that at a young age, with such accuracy or without having knowledge of previous relationships, good or bad.
Relationships are meant to be constructing, nourishing and uplifting, to give you both the opportunity to grow. It is true that, every relationship has to endure the process of tempering, so it could become strong and lasting; if your relationship does not fall on any of the above mentioned statements, then you have your answer.
Move on and change.
A relationship is past repair when one or the other holds resentment in their heart and hurt and they can not forgive each other. Where you are unable to move on because past arguments keep ersurfacing, when neither can talk without getting into an argument, when you feel you are bad for each other and being apart is the best thing for both.
Walking away from it would be the best case- Why make something work when all you do will end up doing is making the situation worst and in the end you end up hating each other and you can no longer even stay friends, making it work when it’s not going to just makes the relationship more complicated and relationship[ should not have to be stressful and heartbreaking, it is not only strenuos on you both but also freinds and family and any children that may or one day maybe involved. I think there is a saying if you love someone let them go..
I don’t know about your situation is or whether those are applicable to you – but those are just some thoughts. Good luck.
once you’ve both tried to make it work and it does not feel right then you arent meant to be. if he’s cheated on you and he said he wont do it again but he continues to, walk away. if you are the only one trying in the relationship, walk away. if he is using you, walk away. if you’ve broken up over 4 times and gotten back together but it still isnt working out, walk away. if he abuses you, walk away. if he is disrespectful to your family or friends or even you, walk away…
The first factor is, what circumstances the decision was taken? if it was in an anger condition, most probably u can continue it, but if it was calm and quite, with no pressures it is most probably the right decision, in addition, if the conflict is minor as some one was late in a date or forgot n occasion, it is simple to resolve but if it was a basic concept, value, principle, it is hard to fix, an example, i u find ur partner is continuously lying, cheating, u gave him (her), more than a chance, if there is trade, it is hard to fix as it will break sooner or later
If you asked this question, I think that you have decided that your relationship is past repair. You are just looking for confirmation of what you have already decided. Sometimes the truth does hurt.
Take Care.
when the other person is dating somone else
When the bad times outweigh the good.
when you argue constantly. or one of them f**** it up big time.
tolerance only goes so far. once you give more then 50%, it’s unfair.
if you can’t get over whatever they did, then it’s past repair