I really want to stick with my new years resolution because I know it would make me happier and make my life better. I have written it down on paper and I often look at that paper I also try to think alot about it. Anyway my new years resolution is to be more confident, being confident is not something that comes natural so can you give me any suggestions in pretending I am confident?
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Confidence is not something you can pretend. If you consider yourself shy, there’s nothing wrong with it. I’ve been there, and the best way to overcome it is by being social, you know going out, meeting a lot of new people from different walks of life, chatting with them about anything. It really broadens your horizon, you get life experience therefore you get more self confident. That’s the best & simplest way.
Edit: Fran, when you hang around older “wiser” people, you’ll find out looks don’t matter. Besides you might find yourself “ugly”, but when you’re around people with actual brains, & you learn from them & get confident, confidence can make you shine more than make-up ever can.
pretend? yes, well i pretend to. i have bdd but i’m too embarrassed to reveal that i think i’m ugly. when speaking to other people stare directly into their eyes. (sorry i’m only 18 so i don’t have a better answer)
so the things that makes you feel good inside. learn the things that will definitely give you the confidence you needed.